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Why She Won't Wear Hijab! A Discussion by A.Q. Alidost

A convesation for Muslim sisters:

"I'm so tired."

"Tired of what?"

"Of all these people judging me."

"Who judged you?"

"Like that woman, every time I sit with her, she tells me to wear hijab."

"Oh, hijab and music! The mother of all topics!"

"Yeah! I listen to music without hijab…haha!"

"Maybe she was just giving you advice."

"I don't need her advice. I know my religion. Can't she mind her own business?"

"Maybe you misunderstood. She was just being nice."

"Keeping out of my business, that would be nice..."

"But it's her duty to encourage you do to good."

"Trust me. That was no encouragement. And what do you mean 'good' ?"

"Well, wearing hijab, that would be a good thing to do."

"Says who?"

"It's in the Qur'an, isn't it?"

"Yes. She did quote me something."

"She said Surah Nur, and other places of the Qur'an."

"Yes, but it's not a big sin anyway. Helping people and praying is
more important."

"True. But big things start with small things."

"That's a good point, but what you wear is not important. What's
important is to have a good healthy heart."

"What you wear is not important?"

"That's what I said."

"Then why do you spend an hour every morning fixing up?"

"What do you mean?"

"You spend money on cosmetics, not to mention all the time you spend
on fixing your hair and low-carb dieting."

"So?"

"So, your appearance IS important."

"No. I said wearing hijab is not an important thing in religion."

"If it's not an important thing in religion, why is it mentioned in
the Holy Qur'an?"

"You know I can't follow all that's in Qur'an."

"You mean God tells you something to do, you disobey and then it's OK?"

"Yes. God is forgiving."

"God is forgiving to those who repent and do not repeat their mistakes."

"Says who?"

"Says the same book that tells you to cover."

"But I don't like hijab, it limits my freedom."

"But the lotions, lipsticks, mascara and other cosmetics set you free?!

What's your definition of freedom anyway?"

"Freedom is in doing whatever you like to do."

"No. Freedom is in doing the right thing, not in doing whatever we wish to do."

"Look! I've seen so many people who don't wear hijab and are nice
people, and so many who wear hijab and are bad people."

"So what? There are people who are nice to you but are alcoholic.
Should we all be alcoholics? You made a stupid point."

"I don't want to be an extremist or a fanatic. I'm OK the way I am
without hijab."

"Then you are a secular fanatic. An extremist in disobeying God."

"You don't get it, if I wear hijab, who would marry me?!"

"So all these people with hijab never get married?!"

"Okay! What if I get married and my husband doesn't like it? And wants
me to remove it?"

"What if your husband wants you to go out with him on a bank robbery?!"

"That's irrelevant, bank robbery is a crime."

"Disobeying your Creator is not a crime?"

"But then who would hire me?"

"A company that respects people for who they are."

"Not after 9-11"

"Yes. After 9-11. Don't you know about Hanan who just got into med
school? And the other one, what was her name, the girl who always wore
a white hijab…ummm…"

"Yasmeen?"

"Yes. Yasmeen. She just finished her MBA and is now interning for GE."

"Why do you reduce religion to a piece of cloth anyway?"

"Why do you reduce womanhood to high heals and lipstick colors?"

"You didn't answer my question."

"In fact, I did. Hijab is not just a piece of cloth. It is obeying God
in a difficult environment. It is courage, faith in action, and true
womanhood.

But your short sleeves, tight pants…"

"That's called `fashion`, you live in a cave orsomething? First of
all, hijab was founded by men who wanted to control women."

"Really? I did not know men could control women by hijab."

"Yes. That's what it is."

"What about the women who fight their husbands to wear hijab? And
women in France who are forced to remove their hijab by men? What do
you say about that?"

"Well, that's different."

"What difference? The woman who asked you to wear hijab…she was a woman, right?"

"Right, but…"

"But fashions that are designed and promoted by male-dominated
corporations, set you free? Men have no control on exposing women and
using them as a commodity?! Give me a break!"

"Wait, let me finish, I was saying…"

"Saying what? You think that men control women by hijab?"

"Yes."

"Specifically how?"

"By telling women how and what to wear, dummy!"

"Doesn't TV, magazines and movies tell you what to wear, and how to be
'attractive'?"

"Of course, it's fashion."

"Isn't that control? Pressuring you to wear what they want you to wear?"

[Silence]

"Not just controlling you, but also controlling the market."

"What do you mean?"

"I mean, you are told to look skinny and anorexic like that woman on
the cover of the magazine, by men who design those magazines and sell
those products."

"I don't get it. What does hijab have to do with products."

"It has everything to do with that. Don't you see? Hijab is a threat
to consumerism, women who spend billions of dollars to look skinny and
live by standards of fashion designed by men…and then here is Islam,
saying trash all that nonsense and focus on your soul, not on your
looks, and do not worry what men think of your looks."

"Like I don't have to buy hijab? Isn't hijab a product?"

"Yes, it is. It is a product that sets you free from male-dominated
consumerism."

"Stop lecturing me! I WILL NOT WEAR HIJAB! It is awkward, outdated,
and totally not suitable for this society ... Moreover, I am only 20
and too young to wear hijab!"

"Fine. Say that to your Lord, when you face Him on Judgment Day."

"Fine."

"Fine."

[Silence]

"Shut up and I don't want to hear more about hijab niqab schmijab Punjab!"

[Silence]

She stared at the mirror, tired of arguing with herself all this time.

Successful enough, she managed to shut the voices in her head, with
her own opinions triumphant in victory on the matter, and a final
modern decision accepted by the society - but rejected by the Faith:

"Yes!" - to curls on the hair - "No!" - to hijab!

"And he(/she) is indeed a failure who corrupts it [the soul]!"

[Holy Quran 91:10]

Subhana'Allah!!!

"Nay! You
prefer the life of this world; While the hereafter is better and
more lasting."

[Holy Quran:
87:16-17]

"You are the best community (Ummah) raised up for (the benefit of)
humanity; enjoining what is right and forbidding what is wrong and
believing in Allah."

[Holy Quran: 3:110]

SETIAP KESABARAN AKAN DIGANTI DENGAN KEMENANGAN
SETIAP KEDUKAAN AKAN BERGANTI DENGAN KEBAHAGIAAN
SETIAP PERPISAHAN PASTI BERMULA DENGAN SATU PERTEMUAN
SETIAP YANG BERAKHIR AKAN BERTUKAR DENGAN SUATU PERMULAAN
SETIAP KEJADIAN TUHAN PASTI ADA HIKMAHNYA.............
Saya Ada satu epal, anda Ada satu epal. Kita tukar epal, anda Ada satu
Dan saya tetap Ada satu.
Jika anda Ada satu ilmu Dan saya Ada satu ilmu, kemudian Kita tukar
ilmu tersebut, anda Ada dua ilmu Dan saya Ada dua ilmu...




Allahu Akbar!!

ADAB MENDENGAR AZAN
Kematian itu pasti menjelma. Hanya masa Dan waktunya
Yang tidak Kita ketahui.Cuba Kita amati. Mengapa
Kebanyakan orang yg nazak, hampir ajal tidak dapat
Berkata apa-apa.. Lidahnya kelu, keras Dan hanya mimik
Mukanya yang menahan kesakitan ' sakaratul maut' .
Diriwayatkan sebuah hadis yg bermaksud: 'Hendaklah
Kamu mendiamkan diri ketika azan, jika tidak Allah
Akan kelukan lidahnya ketika maut menghampirinya. '
Ini jelas menunjukkan, Kita disarankan agar mendiamkan
Diri, jangan berkata apa-apa pun semasa azan
Berkumandang . Sebagai orang beragama Islam Kita wajib
Menghormati azan Banyak fadhilatnya . Jika lagu
Kebangsaan Kita diajar agar berdiri tegak Dan diamkan
Diri.
Mengapa ketika azan Kita tidak boleh mendiamkan diri?
Lantas sesiapa yang berkata-kata ketika azan, Allah
Akan kelukan lidahnya ketika nazak . Kita takut dengan
Kelunya lidah Kita semasa ajal hampir tiba maka Kita
Tidak dapat mengucap kalimah 'Lailahaillallah. .' yang
Mana sesiapa yang dapat mengucapkan kalimah ini ketika
Nyawanya akan dicabut Allah dgn izinNya menjanjikan
Syurga untuk mereka. Dari itu marilah kita sama-sama
menghormati azan dan mohon kepada Allah supaya lidah
ini tidak kelu semasa nyawa kita sedang dicabut.
'Ya Allah! Anugerahkanlah kematian kami dengan kematian
yang baik lagi mulia, lancarkan lidah kami mengucap kalimah 'Lailahaillallah. .'
semasa sakaratul maut menghampiri kami.. Amin... amin.. amin Yarobbala'lamin. .'

Sesuatu yang tak pernah terjangkau dek akal fikiran ku ini.
Subhanallah. ..

Ketahuilah bahawa pada setiap waktu, ribuan bilal di merata dunia akan
melaungkan azan, mengakui 'Bahawa Allah Sahaja Yang Patut Disembah,
dan Nabi Muhammad Adalah Rasul Allah.'Dimulakan dengan Indonesia yang
terletak dibahagian timur dengan ratusan kepulauan-nya dan jumlah
penduduknya seramai 180 juta.Sebaik masuk waktu Subuh, Azan mula
berkumandang dari kawasan ini dengan ribuan Bilal yang akan melaungkan
Ke-Agungan Allah S.W.T Dan Nabi Muhammad S.A.W.

Proses ini akan bergerak kearah barat kepulauan Indonesia. Perbezaan
masa antara timur dan barat Indonesia adalah 1-1/2 jam.Belumpun
laungan
Azan dimerata Indonesia selesai, ianya bermula pula di
Malaysia.Berikutnya di-Burma dan dalam masa satu jam selepas Azan
dilaungkan di-Jakarta,
tiba giliran Dacca di Bangladesh.Berikutnya laungan akan kedengaran di
Calcutta dan terus ke Srinagar dibarat India.

Perbezaan waktu dikota-kota Pakistan adalah 40 minit jadi dalam jangka
masa ini, Azan akan berkumandang diseluruh Pakistan.Belum berakhir
di-Pakistan, Azan akan bermula pula di Afghanistan dan
Muscat.Perbezaan waktu antara Muscat dan Baghdad adalah satu jam.
Dalam jangka masa
ini, Azan akan berterusan dilaungkan di UAE, Makkah, Madinah, Yaman,
Kuwait dan Iraq.

AZAN..

Proses ini berterusan setiap detik sehingga ke pantai timur
Atlantik.Jarak masa Azan mula dilaungkan di Indonesia sehingga ke
pantai timur Atlantik
adalah 9-1/2 jam.Belumpun Azan Subuh berkumandang di pantai Timur
Atlantik, Azan Zuhur kini sudah mula dilaungkan di Indonesia. Ini
berterusan
bagi setiap waktu sembahyang, tidak putus-putus.

Subhanallah, begitu hebat dan agungnya Islam!

Kalaulah setiap kawasan boleh memasang pembesar suara (yang power
habis!), akan bergegar satu dunia dengan laungan Azan tidak
putus-putus.

Allahu Akhbar!